Isy Suttie’s *The Actual One* is a wickedly funny and disarmingly honest memoir charting the chaotic landscape of late-twenties life. Forget Pinterest-perfect aspirations; Suttie embraces the glorious mess, offering a relatable antidote to the pressure of adulthood. Known for her comedic roles in *Peep Show* and *Shameless*, Suttie brings her sharp wit to this chronicle of dating disasters (including *that* papier-mch penguin), career stumbles, and the often-painful realization that your friends have seemingly morphed into responsible adults overnight. *The Actual One* is a laugh-out-loud exploration of navigating heartbreak, female friendship, and the search for belonging in a world that expects you to have it all figured out. For fans of observational humor and memoirs with heart, this is a must-read. It is more than just a comedy read, it is Isy’s experience with her mental health as she goes through breakups and navigates through different life choices.