Bullies, Bigmouths and So-Called Friends

**Empower Your Child to Overcome Bullying: *Bullies, Bigmouths and So-Called Friends* by J. Alexander (Updated Edition)** Is your child struggling with bullying, difficult friendships, or social anxieties? *Bullies, Bigmouths and So-Called Friends* by J. Alexander offers a unique and effective approach to helping young people navigate the complex social landscape of school and beyond. Unlike many books on bullying that simply tell children what to do, this book delves into the *why*, equipping them with the psychological tools they need to build resilience and confidence from the inside out. This updated edition, published by Hodder & Stoughton, is a valuable resource for children aged approximately 9-14 (National Curriculum Key Stage 3 and older, encompassing Juvenile Fiction and Juvenile Nonfiction audiences). J. Alexander understands that true confidence isn't about putting on a brave face, but about developing a strong sense of self-worth and inner strength. The book directly addresses the feelings of stress and helplessness that often accompany bullying experiences. **Inside *Bullies, Bigmouths and So-Called Friends*, your child will discover:** * **Practical Exercises and Quizzes:** Engaging activities designed to help children understand their own thoughts, feelings, and reactions to different social situations. These exercises encourage self-reflection and provide a framework for developing coping strategies. * **Relatable Fictional Scenarios:** Real-life examples of bullying situations, presented in a way that resonates with young readers. These scenarios allow children to explore different responses and learn how to assert themselves in healthy and effective ways. * **Simple Cognitive Techniques:** J. Alexander skillfully blends common sense with evidence-based cognitive techniques to help children reframe negative thoughts, manage anxiety, and build self-esteem. * **A Humorous and Upbeat Tone:** The author's engaging writing style keeps children motivated and entertained, even when dealing with sensitive topics. The book is written with empathy and understanding, ensuring that readers feel supported and empowered throughout. * **Focus on Friendship Dynamics:** Recognizing that friendship issues are often intertwined with bullying, the book also addresses the challenges of navigating friendships, identifying toxic relationships, and building healthy connections. **More Than Just a Book About Bullying:** *Bullies, Bigmouths and So-Called Friends* is more than just a guide to dealing with bullies; it's a comprehensive resource for building social skills, improving self-esteem, and developing emotional resilience. It helps children to: * **Recognize and challenge negative self-talk.** * **Develop assertive communication skills.** * **Set healthy boundaries.** * **Build a strong sense of self-worth.** * **Navigate difficult friendships.** * **Understand the dynamics of bullying.** * **Find healthy ways to cope with stress and anxiety.** **About the Author: J. Alexander** J. Alexander is a respected author known for her expertise in children's social and emotional development. She has a knack for communicating complex ideas in a way that is accessible and engaging for young readers. Her work has been praised for its practical approach and its focus on empowering children to take control of their own lives. This paperback book contains 128 pages and is written in English. Its ISBN-13 is 9780340911846, and its ISBN-10 is 0340911840. Give your child the tools they need to thrive with *Bullies, Bigmouths and So-Called Friends*!