When everything we’ve been clinging to falls apart, how do we know what to keep and what to let go of? I Guess I Haven’t Learned That Yet, now a New York Times bestseller, is a clear-eyed look at where we go from here–and how we can transform our lives along the way.
Just after her fortieth birthday, author Shauna Niequist found herself in a season of chaos, change, and loss unlike anything she’d ever faced. She discovered that many of the beliefs and practices that she usually turned to were no longer serving her.
After trying–and failing–to pull herself back up using the same old strategies and systems, she realized she required new ones: courage, curiosity, and compassion. She discovered the way through was more about questions than answers, more about forgiveness than force, more about tenderness than trying hard.
In I Guess I Haven’t Learned That Yet, Niequist chronicles her journey–from her life-changing move from the Midwest to Manhattan to the power of unlearning what is no longer helpful and accepting the unknowns that come with midlife, heartbreak, and chronic pain.
With her characteristic candor and grace, Niequist writes about her experience learning how to: Discover new ways of living when the old ways stop working Embrace the challenges and delights of releasing our expectations for how we thought our lives would look Trust God’s goodness in a deeper, more profound way
Follow Niequist as she endeavors to understand grief, to reshape her faith, and to practice courage when it feels impossible.
Praise for I Guess I Haven’t Learned That Yet:
“Gentle. Loving. This tender book asks us to listen to our pain, lean into our discomfort, and trust that we can be lifted back on our feet by God and each other.”
–Kate C. Bowler, New York Times bestselling author of No Cure for Being Human
“This book is a masterpiece. It is a journey and an invitation and a joy and a heartbreak and all the things you need to read to be reminded that hope can still be found.”
–Annie F. Downs, New York Times bestselling author of That Sounds Fun
Discover a path to renewal and resilience with Shauna Niequist's deeply personal and insightful memoir, "I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working." This New York Times bestseller invites readers on a transformative journey alongside Niequist as she navigates unexpected life changes, loss, and the unraveling of long-held beliefs. In this vulnerable and honest account, Niequist shares her experiences following a tumultuous period marked by significant transitions, including a cross-country move from the familiar landscapes of the Midwest to the bustling streets of Manhattan. Confronted with circumstances that challenged her core assumptions, she realized that the strategies she had previously relied upon were no longer effective. This realization became the catalyst for a period of profound self-reflection and rediscovery. "I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet" isn't a simple self-help guide offering quick fixes. Instead, it's an exploration of what happens when life throws curveballs, forcing us to question everything we thought we knew. Niequist emphasizes the importance of embracing vulnerability, cultivating self-compassion, and developing the courage to let go of outdated expectations. She emphasizes that the journey through difficult times is often more about asking the right questions than finding definitive answers. It's about extending forgiveness rather than forcing outcomes, and approaching ourselves with gentleness rather than harsh self-criticism. This book resonates deeply with anyone who has experienced significant life changes, grappled with loss, or found themselves questioning their faith. Niequist's relatable narrative and authentic voice create a sense of connection, reminding readers that they are not alone in their struggles. She skillfully weaves together personal anecdotes, thoughtful reflections, and spiritual insights, offering a roadmap for navigating uncertainty and finding renewed hope. Niequist doesn't shy away from addressing difficult topics like grief, chronic pain, and the challenges of reshaping one's faith in the face of adversity. Instead, she approaches these subjects with honesty and vulnerability, creating a safe space for readers to explore their own experiences and emotions. "I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet" has garnered widespread acclaim for its honesty, vulnerability, and profound insights. Kate Bowler, New York Times bestselling author of "No Cure for Being Human," describes the book as "Gentle. Loving. This tender book asks us to listen to our pain, lean into our discomfort, and trust that we can be lifted back on our feet by God and each other." Annie F. Downs, New York Times bestselling author of "That Sounds Fun," calls it "a masterpiece... a journey and an invitation and a joy and a heartbreak and all the things you need to read to be reminded that hope can still be found." More than just a memoir, "I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet" is an invitation to embrace change, cultivate resilience, and discover new ways of living when the old ways no longer serve. Its a testament to the power of vulnerability, the importance of self-compassion, and the enduring hope that can be found even in the midst of life's most challenging seasons. Shauna Niequist's insightful and compassionate voice offers comfort and guidance to anyone seeking to navigate life's uncertainties with grace and courage.