Losing It

**Losing It: Shattering Sex Myths and Reclaiming Sexual Empowerment** Dive into a groundbreaking exploration of sex, sexuality, and misinformation with Sophia Smith Galer's *Losing It*, a vital and engaging call to arms for a more inclusive and equitable understanding of sex. Are you tired of the inadequate, shame-based sex education that leaves you with more questions than answers? Do you feel lost in a world of contradictory information and unrealistic expectations? Then *Losing It* is the book you need. Sophia Smith Galer, a prominent journalist known for her insightful reporting and large social media following (especially on platforms like TikTok, where she tackles complex issues with clarity and wit), draws on her own experiences and the stories of countless others to expose the pervasive myths and misconceptions that shape our sexual lives. Having personally experienced the failings of traditional sex education, Galer embarks on a journey to uncover the truth, guided by a new generation of sex educators and informed by rigorous research. *Losing It* isn't just about the biological mechanics of sex; it's about pleasure, consent, relationships, and the societal pressures that influence our choices and experiences. The book tackles fundamental questions, daring to challenge long-held beliefs and encouraging readers to question everything they thought they knew about sex. **Explore critical topics, including:** * **Virginity:** Does losing your virginity actually alter you physically or emotionally? Galer debunks the myth of virginity as a social construct and explores its impact on self-perception and relationships. * **Sexlessness:** What does it mean to be abstinent in a hyper-sexualized world? *Losing It* examines the diverse reasons why people choose to abstain from sex and challenges the stigma often associated with sexlessness. * **Virility:** Why is male virility so closely tied to self-worth and social acceptance? Galer dissects the pressures men face to perform sexually and the consequences of these expectations. * **Consent:** Is consent simply saying "no"? *Losing It* delves into the nuances of consent, emphasizing enthusiastic consent and the importance of communication and respect in sexual encounters. More than just an expos, *Losing It* is an empowering guide to rewriting your own sexual narrative. Smith Galer encourages readers of all ages and backgrounds to reclaim their sexual agency, embrace their desires, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. This book is not just for those who feel lost or confused; it's for anyone who wants to deepen their understanding of sex, challenge outdated norms, and advocate for a more inclusive and sex-positive society. Get ready to question everything and redefine your understanding of sex with this essential and thought-provoking read. Perfect for sparking conversations and transforming how we think about sex and relationships, *Losing It* is a must-have for anyone seeking sexual empowerment and a better understanding of themselves and the world around them.