“I had an obsession with the Amish. Plan and simple. Objectively it made no sense. I, who worked hard at being special, fell in love with a people who valued being ordinary.”
So begins Sue Bender’s story, the captivating and inspiring true story of a harried urban Californian moved by the beauty of a display of quilts to seek out and live with the Amish. Discovering lives shaped by unfamiliar yet comforting ideas about time, work, and community, Bender is gently coaxed to consider, “Is there another way to lead a good life?”
Her journey begins in a New York men’s clothing store. There she is spellbound by the vibrant colors and stunning geometric simplicity of the Amish quilts “spoke directly to me,” writes Bender. Somehow, “they went straight to my heart.”
Heeding a persistent inner voice, Bender searches for Amish families willing to allow her to visit and share in there daily lives. Plain and Simple vividly recounts sojourns with two Amish families, visits during which Bender enters a world without television, telephone, electric light, or refrigerators; a world where clutter and hurry are replaced with inner quiet and calm ritual; a world where a sunny kitchen “glows” and “no distinction was made between the sacred and the everyday.”
In nine interrelated chapters–as simple and elegant as a classic nine-patch Amish quilt–Bender shares the quiet power she found reflected in lives of joyful simplicity, humanity, and clarity. The fast-paced, opinionated, often frazzled Bender returns home and reworks her “crazy-quilt” life, integrating the soul-soothing qualities she has observed in the Amish, and celebrating the patterns in the Amish, and celebrating the patterns formed by the distinctive “patches” of her own life.
Charmingly illustrated and refreshingly spare, Plain and Simple speaks to the seeker in each of us.
Discover profound simplicity and lasting life lessons in Sue Bender's transformative memoir, *Plain and Simple: A Woman's Journey to the Amish*. This compelling book chronicles Bender's deeply personal quest, sparked by an unexpected encounter with Amish quilts that resonated within her soul. Leaving behind her hectic, fast-paced life in California, Bender embarks on a journey to immerse herself in the world of the Amish, seeking a deeper understanding of their values and way of life. More than just an observation, *Plain and Simple* is an intimate exploration of faith, community, and the enduring power of a life lived intentionally. Bender doesn't merely describe the Amish lifestyle; she experiences it firsthand, shedding the complexities of modern life for the quiet rhythms of a world without electricity, telephones, or the constant barrage of information. Through her vivid and heartfelt prose, she paints a portrait of a community rooted in tradition, where work is a form of prayer, and relationships are nurtured through shared experiences. Bender's journey is not without its challenges. Accustomed to a life of personal ambition and external validation, she grapples with the Amish emphasis on humility, community service, and the rejection of material possessions. Yet, as she spends time with Amish families, participating in their daily routines and observing their unwavering faith, she begins to question her own values and the true meaning of a fulfilling life. She learns about the strength of their tight-knit community and its support, and sees how the Amish traditions allow them to prioritize family. The book delves into the Amish values of simplicity, peace, and self-sufficiency, offering readers a chance to reflect on their own lives and consider what truly matters. Bender skillfully weaves together personal anecdotes, insightful observations, and reflections on the Amish culture, creating a narrative that is both informative and deeply moving. *Plain and Simple* isn't just a story about the Amish; it's a story about self-discovery, the search for meaning, and the courage to embrace a simpler, more authentic way of life. Upon returning to her own world, Bender is changed. She doesn't abandon her life entirely, but instead integrates the Amish principles into her own life. Readers have long appreciated the book's message of valuing simplicity in the midst of a world obsessed with more. The book is an invitation to slow down, appreciate the present moment, and cultivate a deeper connection to oneself and the world around. If you are seeking ways to find peace and self-reliance, look no further than the lessons learned from the Amish and the journey of Sue Bender. This reprint edition is a timeless classic that continues to resonate with readers seeking inspiration and a reminder of the enduring power of simple living.