The touching, honest and laugh-out-loud account of what it’s like to become a first-time mum after 40
Whatever your age, becoming a mum for the first time brings excitement, anxiety and numerous challenges. But how do you cope when, to top it all off, you discover you are almost old enough to be the mother of everyone else in your birth prep group? As one in five babies is born to a mum over 35, and the number of women over 40 giving birth has doubled, The Secret Diary of a New Mum (Aged 43 1/4) is Cari Rosen’s timely and hilarious account of becoming a first-time mother in her 40s.
Whether it’s deftly side-stepping questions about your age and baby number two, weeping as younger counterparts ping back into their size ten jeans within thirty seconds of giving birth, or your doctor suddenly referring to you as geriatric, Cari approaches the shared experiences of an ever-increasing number of mothers with insight, humour and honesty.
***Praise for The Secret Diary of a New Mum***
‘Hilariously candid.’ Daily Mail
‘Brilliantly observed… funny, embarrassing and yet cruelly honest. It feels good to laugh about it, now the stitches are out.’ Fay Ripley
‘Warm, witty and very, very wise the perfect antidote to all those po-faced pregnancy books. As a fellow ”Geriatric Mother” I found myself constantly laughing and nodding along in agreement.’ Imogen Edwards-Jones
"**The Secret Diary of a New Mum (Aged 43 1/4) by Cari Rosen: A Hilarious and Heartfelt Guide to Motherhood After 40** Navigating motherhood is a unique journey for every woman, filled with joys, challenges, and unexpected twists. But what happens when you embark on this adventure later in life, joining the growing ranks of women becoming mothers in their 40s? Cari Rosen's *The Secret Diary of a New Mum (Aged 43 1/4)* offers a refreshingly honest, laugh-out-loud funny, and deeply relatable account of this experience. More than just a personal diary, this book is a lifeline for any woman contemplating or currently experiencing motherhood after 40. Rosen doesn't shy away from the realities of being an "older" first-time mum. She tackles sensitive subjects with wit and wisdom, from fielding awkward questions about age and future pregnancies to grappling with the physical changes and societal expectations that can feel amplified at this stage of life. Rosens writing style is akin to chatting with a close friend who "gets it." She fearlessly recounts the moments of sheer exhaustion, the overwhelming love, the anxieties, and the absurdities that come with new parenthood. She paints a picture of relatable scenarios: the subtle jabs about being a "geriatric mother", the quiet envy of younger mums effortlessly snapping back into their pre-baby jeans, and the constant juggling act of career, relationships, and self-care. This book dives deep into the emotional landscape of later-in-life motherhood. Rosen explores the unique challenges and advantages that come with this timing. She confronts the societal pressures and expectations that older mothers often face while celebrating the wisdom, experience, and self-assurance that can make this chapter of life particularly rewarding. While its packed with humor, *The Secret Diary of a New Mum (Aged 43 1/4)* is also incredibly insightful. It provides a sense of community and validation for older mothers, reminding them that they are not alone in their experiences. Rosens honesty is disarming, her self-deprecating humor infectious, and her insights profound. This book is an antidote to the often-sanitized and idealized portrayals of motherhood, offering a refreshing dose of reality and encouragement. If you are searching for a book that embraces the chaos, celebrates the triumphs, and acknowledges the struggles of motherhood after 40, look no further. *The Secret Diary of a New Mum (Aged 43 1/4)* is a must-read for expectant mothers, new mums, and anyone who wants a glimpse into the hilariously candid and deeply moving world of parenting later in life. **Praise for the book:** As the Daily Mail says it is "**Hilariously candid**". Fay Ripley says it's "**Brilliantly observed... funny, embarrassing and yet cruelly honest. It feels good to laugh about it, now the stitches are out**". Imogen Edwards-Jones says it's "**Warm, witty and very, very wise the perfect antidote to all those po-faced pregnancy books. As a fellow ''Geriatric Mother'' I found myself constantly laughing and nodding along in agreement.**" "