The Right Kind of Parental Pressure Puts Kids on a Path to Success. The Wrong Kind Can Be Disastrous.
Level up your parenting with this positive approach to pushing your child to be their best self. Parents instinctively push their kids to succeed. Yet well-meaning parents can put soul-crushing pressure on kids, leading to under-performance and serious mental health problems instead of social, emotional, and academic success. So where are they going astray? According to Drs. Chris Thurber and Hendrie Weisinger, it all comes down to asking the right question. Instead of How much pressure?, you should be thinking How do I apply pressure?
The Unlikely Art of Parental Pressure addresses the biggest parenting dilemma of all time: how to push kids to succeed and find happiness in a challenging world without pushing them too far. The solution lies in Thurber and Weisingers eight methods for transforming harmful pressure to healthy pressure.
Each transformation is enlivened by case studies, grounded in research, and fueled by practical strategies that you can start using right away. By upending conventional wisdom, Thurber and Weisinger provide you with the revolutionary guide you need to nurture motivation, improve your interactions with your child, build deep connections, sidestep cultural pitfalls, and, ultimately, help your kids become their best selves.
Unlock your child's full potential without crushing their spirit! Are you struggling to find the right balance between encouraging your child's success and overwhelming them with pressure? "The Unlikely Art of Parental Pressure: A Positive Approach to Pushing Your Child to Be Their Best Self" by Dr. Christopher Thurber and Hendrie Weisinger, PhD, offers a groundbreaking and compassionate guide to navigating this critical parenting challenge. This isn't another lecture on helicopter parenting. Drs. Thurber and Weisinger delve deep into the *how* of parental pressure, moving beyond the simplistic "how much is too much?" question. They understand that parents inherently want the best for their children, but good intentions can sometimes lead to detrimental outcomes anxiety, underperformance, and strained relationships. Drawing upon years of research and clinical experience, the authors present a revolutionary approach to transforming harmful pressure into healthy motivation. They dismantle conventional wisdom and equip you with eight powerful methods to cultivate your child's intrinsic drive, foster meaningful connections, and sidestep common cultural traps that often amplify parental anxiety. Imagine a parenting style where your child feels supported, not suffocated; challenged, not crushed. "The Unlikely Art of Parental Pressure" makes this vision a reality. Through compelling case studies, practical strategies, and insightful analysis, you'll learn how to: * **Identify and dismantle unhealthy pressure patterns** that may be hindering your child's growth. * **Communicate effectively** to inspire motivation and build trust, not foster resentment. * **Encourage resilience and adaptability** in the face of challenges. * **Promote a growth mindset** that celebrates effort and learning over innate talent. * **Navigate the pressures of academic achievement, extracurricular activities, and social expectations** in a healthy and balanced way. * **Help your child discover their passions and pursue their goals** with genuine enthusiasm. Dr. Christopher Thurber is a board-certified clinical psychologist and educator with over 25 years of experience working with children and families. He is widely recognized for his expertise in child development, resilience, and the impact of pressure on young people. Hendrie Weisinger, PhD, is a renowned psychologist, leadership expert, and bestselling author. His work focuses on emotional intelligence, stress management, and peak performance. Together, they bring a wealth of knowledge and practical wisdom to this essential parenting guide. "The Unlikely Art of Parental Pressure" is more than just a book; it's an investment in your child's future and your relationship with them. It's a roadmap to creating a supportive and empowering environment where your child can thrive, not just survive. This thought-provoking and practical guide is a must-read for parents, educators, and anyone who wants to help young people reach their full potential without sacrificing their well-being. Published by Hachette Go, this paperback edition contains 272 pages of invaluable advice.